aha! option 2 successfully resurrected & remarried my fallen love: stenvar. I married him and lost him in a dragon fight. After resurrection he doesn't remember me as a spouse anymore, this option helped regain his spouse status.Sonxio (talk) 01:37, January 20, 2017 (UTC)
- The spouse must be killed
- The console command Setstage RelationshipMarriage 10 must then be used
- The console commands resurrect should next be used on the ex-spouse (and eventually the command setrelationshiprank player 4 on him/her to keep the relationship status obtained with the NPC related quests)
- The old Amulet of Mara doesn't need to be dropped or sold.