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Why is there no Khajiit and Bosmer spouses? Why?

  • Why, is the no marriable Khajiit or bosmer? I think thats annoying.

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    • it is annoying indeed. i guess bethesda was to busy making the game and forgot adding marriable Khajiits / bosmer....

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    • Khajiit wants to marry other Khajiit, why can't this one marry Khajiit ='(

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    • I always wanted to marry Kharjo on my Kajiit character. He's availible as a follower, but that's it.

      =/

      So sad.

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    • Same! Why can't we marry Kharjo or J'zargo, at least? They're followers, even... But the only Bosmer I can think of that doesn't have something better to do is Faendal, and he's too busy with Camilla Valerius :/ Maybe Malborn... if he manages to not die. But yeah there should definitely be more options.

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    • khajits are not native to skyrim, most travelers are males that are warriors, mercenaries, or traders... though statistically it shouldn't matter it is also possible that they dont practice marriage.. on other notes.... ah... male cats tend to have barbs on their..... so not only would it be unpleasant but possibly deadly.... especially since skyrim has no showers and in all likelyhood the towns/people probably smell so bad it would be unbearable... not a good place to get infections...

      as for argonians... they are either related to plants (hist) or lay egg.... making them undesireable and likely taboo

      The Bosmer are a tree dwelling people, more closely associated with warm climates and a lifestyle to living in communities in trees.... it is unlikely to run into any bosmer in skyrim, the ones we do interact with are likely exiles or criminals from their own culture.

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    • There are no Khajiit spouses because (I think it's Ri'saad that told me this) Khajiit are not allowed to go into cities, probably having something to do with their skooma and moon sugar production. That's why they travel in caravans and can never set up shop inside the cities. So if you plan to marry one in Mara's temple in riften, The khajiit would be kicked out in an instant, espicially after that Skooma quest...

      As for the bosmer... I don't know.

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    • But a Khajiit Dragonborn can go wherever they want, and you're allowed to bring the two Khajiit followers into cities. (You can also bring Argonian followers into Windhelm, even though supposedly they're not allowed within the walls.) And most races in Skyrim aren't native to Skyrim, but you can still marry them. Maybe Khajiit don't have the same traditions when it comes to marriage... but a Khajiit Dragonborn still does the Amulet of Mara thing, so? who knows.

      But yeah there aren't many Bosmer in Skyrim, I get how there's just not enough of them to be able to marry. But it would have been cool if there was just like, ONE MORE so that this race wouldn't be off limits when it comes to marriage, you know?

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    • This one is to concerned with relationships to notice the skooma that was just stolen.

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    • Why would anybody marry a Bosmer? That would be awful... like imagine you've been in a cave full of leveled Falmers just to get a sucky loot, you're tired and quite pissed, so you return to your nice house to have a rest and you find this 8ft tall orc looking at you like "hey honey". I'd have a stroke

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    • Brunoob wrote:
      Why would anybody marry a Bosmer? That would be awful... like imagine you've been in a cave full of leveled Falmers just to get a sucky loot, you're tired and quite pissed, so you return to your nice house to have a rest and you find this 8ft tall orc looking at you like "hey honey". I'd have a stroke


      Orc? Bosmer are wood elves, there are already plenty of orcs (Orsimer) you can marry.

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    • Malac'ra wrote:
      Brunoob wrote:
      Why would anybody marry a Bosmer? That would be awful... like imagine you've been in a cave full of leveled Falmers just to get a sucky loot, you're tired and quite pissed, so you return to your nice house to have a rest and you find this 8ft tall orc looking at you like "hey honey". I'd have a stroke

      Orc? Bosmer are wood elves, there are already plenty of orcs (Orsimer) you can marry.

      Looks like i should revise the races, since i swapped Bosmer and Orsimer

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    • Well, you can marry them... A few console commands here and a bit of cheating there and you've got it. Actually, there are very few people that you cannot marry in Skyrim on the PC. From what I know of you can't ever marry Jarl Elisif of Solitude and you can't marry main quest characters, and more important characters from the Skyrim Rebellion.

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    • Yes, everyone knows you can marry almost anyone via console commands. This sort of problem is really only concerning for those who play on consoles, unless someone doesn't like using the console commands, I guess... 

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    • Maybe the creators thought that players would be annoyed by thinking it is marrying a cat.

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    • 74.130.125.90 wrote:
      Maybe the creators thought that players would be annoyed by thinking it is marrying a cat.

      But you can marry lizards?

      I don't think that that's the reason...

      It could have likely been an oversight, although you would think they might have updated the game by now with at least one kajiit/bosmer spouse considering all the people asking about it...

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    • Brunoob wrote:


      Malac'ra wrote:
      Brunoob wrote:
      Why would anybody marry a Bosmer? That would be awful... like imagine you've been in a cave full of leveled Falmers just to get a sucky loot, you're tired and quite pissed, so you return to your nice house to have a rest and you find this 8ft tall orc looking at you like "hey honey". I'd have a stroke
      Orc? Bosmer are wood elves, there are already plenty of orcs (Orsimer) you can marry.
      Looks like i should revise the races, since i swapped Bosmer and Orsimer


      Yeah, I found your comment weird. Bosmer are the shortest race. And I've got a thng towards them Bosmer. I really like them. So it's a shame that a Bosmer Dragonborn can't marry one of their own race.

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    • It always stuck me as a bit strange. Still, there are mods on the PC version to add spouses, or marry exisiting characters.

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    • Jonesy95 wrote:
      It always stuck me as a bit strange. Still, there are mods on the PC version to add spouses, or marry exisiting characters.


      I've seen those on youtube. Marrying Brynjolf would be cool (I like him).

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    • I'd marry Vex and joke on all the other thieves in the guild

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    • I'd marry M'aiq the Liar with a girl character, and a female Khajiit as my Theif/Assassin/Father/ThaneOfTwoCitys

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    • 66.97.54.209 wrote:
      I'd marry M'aiq the Liar with a girl character, and a female Khajiit as my Theif/Assassin/Father/ThaneOfTwoCitys

      btw my Thane of 2 citys is a boy

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    • All I'm saying is.... If I'm a Khajiit, I should be able to mary another Khajiit. What's the point of getting the ax-of-the-city and becomming a thane if you can't mary within your own clan.

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    • I actually feel quite horrible about this as well. I play as a Bosmer character and I find it quite silly that I can't marry my own kind.

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    • I also find it outrageous when you have completed favours/quests for either Kharjo or J' Zargo and yet you still can't marry them. You'll only get followers, that's it. Seriously, if there are going to be no Khajiit or Bosmer spouses, what's the point of these two kinds? I love both, but Khajiit more. I had one she-cat marry an Argonian... Had her kill him... Felt guilty as Hell... Returned to Kharjo to seek marriage... Mission failed... Still feel guilty to this day even after I accidentaly erased all of my charrie's data :/ I just hope in the future, Bethesda makes satisfying changes quick...

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    • I would say Niruin should be a candidate, but then I learned about his 'great idea'. I just wish there was a guy that wasn't a brute-strength warrior for my second character to marry.

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    • MFVM - More Follower Voices Mod Plus Khajiit Marriage

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    • I don't see the problem with no Bosmer or Khajit spouses, because you can just mod them in. Come on guys, the creation kit was released for a reason! You can't expect Beth to make perfect elder scrolls games in 6 years (10 years wait would be ridiculous), especially cause they cope with fallout and other games. They are not exactly Activision or EA, you know

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    • Not everyone plays on PC.

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    • Goldflame33 wrote:
      Not everyone plays on PC.

      Thats why not everyone have patches, mods and stuff (at least I don't, as I don't even use Xbox live). If we choose to use a console, we shoud accept the limitations, because complaining is not going to change anything. I know it can be interesting if there were more spouse choices, but we chose to use the console, it is still our choice to do so, nobody stopped us from using the PC. 

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    • So... it's somehow my fault? 

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    • Goldflame33 wrote:
      So... it's somehow my fault? 

      No, but even if we rage, scream and stick tiny pins into beth logos, they will not solve the problem, so give up, like I already did. This is not a boss fight, its like trying to kill Akatosh

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    • 202.156.8.15 wrote:
      Goldflame33 wrote:
      So... it's somehow my fault? 
      No, but even if we rage, scream and stick tiny pins into beth logos, they will not solve the problem, so give up, like I already did. This is not a boss fight, its like trying to kill Akatosh

      or killing alduin when he isnt a boss you need ti fight, like when he is reviving a dragon.

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    • You seem to infer that I am raging, screaming, and crying. I am just expressing my disappointment, fully aware that it on't change anything.

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    • Goldflame33 wrote:
      You seem to infer that I am raging, screaming, and crying. I am just expressing my disappointment, fully aware that it on't change anything.

      I was exaggerating for effect, that is not what I infer. The point I wanted to make is that even if we did extreme things, Beth has no time to listen to our pleas

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    • GUYS! Your all idiots, bethesda is racist end of question (but seriously I have no idea.) 

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    • My friend C, the slayer of "The's", this thread has been dead for over a week, I think you should have let it die, as I said in another thread, Necromancy is illegal or at least frowned upon almost everywhere.

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    • Pink Slim
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      mostly off topic, added nothing to conversation.
      05:29, November 10, 2013
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      TIME FOR CHEESE! Oh and Khajiit marriage... yeah...

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    • Actually, you can marry a khajiit. You can marry a khajiit dark brotherhood member

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    • 162.203.32.244 wrote:
      Actually, you can marry a khajiit. You can marry a khajiit dark brotherhood member

      Who? A Dark Brotherhood Initiate?

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    • 162.203.32.244 wrote:
      Actually, you can marry a khajiit. You can marry a khajiit dark brotherhood member

      looks like somebody's modding.

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    • MFVM - More Follower Voices Mod Plus Khajiit Marriage

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    • 202.156.8.15 wrote: I don't see the problem with no Bosmer or Khajit spouses, because you can just mod them in. Come on guys, the creation kit was released for a reason! You can't expect Beth to make perfect elder scrolls games in 6 years (10 years wait would be ridiculous), especially cause they cope with fallout and other games. They are not exactly Activision or EA, you know

      Ummmm just an f.y.i EA has the WORST customer service of any video game company period, so they really don't fix glitches or help anyone, ether check there reviews or try to get a hold of them yourself... it's imposable, there help site is feakin bogus... literally, it dose not work.(calling them just gets you redirected to another line via bot, which redirects you to the previous line via bot, repeat...) and activision is ether half dead or just really dormant.

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    • 74.138.184.59 wrote:

      202.156.8.15 wrote: I don't see the problem with no Bosmer or Khajit spouses, because you can just mod them in. Come on guys, the creation kit was released for a reason! You can't expect Beth to make perfect elder scrolls games in 6 years (10 years wait would be ridiculous), especially cause they cope with fallout and other games. They are not exactly Activision or EA, you know

      Ummmm just an f.y.i EA has the WORST customer service of any video game company period, so they really don't fix glitches or help anyone, ether check there reviews or try to get a hold of them yourself... it's imposable, there help site is feakin bogus... literally, it dose not work.(calling them just gets you redirected to another line via bot, which redirects you to the previous line via bot, repeat...) and activision is ether half dead or just really dormant.

      Just to clarify, I and 202 are one and the same...

      What I meant is that beth is just a subsidiary of zenimax and so essentially ONE game company working on many different games, stretching them thin as heck, while mega conglomerates like EA and Activision, while crappy, have many companies belt out the same series e.g. Look at Call of duty, its made by infinity ward, treyarch, raven rt and other hangers on here and there and its no perfect shooter. Beth make fricking RPGs, which are way above the level of shooters and take pretty long to make. Plus the fact they make fallout, this kinda makes it impossible for them to make perfect games which can fulfill everyone's desire, why did you think they gave out creation kit. Still, they deliver on their promise for good games.

      Anyway, back to the OP, even though I wouldn't care for a Khajit or Bosmer spouse for RP purposes, some do. However, the marriage mechanic is kinda new to TES so we can treat Skyrim as an experimental game, seeing they completely redid levelling and stuff. So I kinda had precognition that the game's marriage mechanic was more a test than the real deal, seeing that all marriage candidates are anything goes bis that don't mind marrying any organism, so long as the other organism wears some cheap amulet and asks. No courtship, no affection...

      Sorry for the long reply but I don't see why people complain about no Khajit and Bosmer spouses when the marriage system is completely inadequate and flawed, plus the company that makes the games are stretched thin.

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