She is gone forever for me. I tried everything. I don't have any saves with her in it anymore. I can't get another follower, even though she isn't with me. She isn't invisible near me, because i have a kinect and i said Ally Trade, Ally follow, and ally wait. Nothing happened, the commands were rejected and it showed that it was rejected on the top right of the screen. I went to the castle, still nothing. No on has the solution, barely anyone has this problem, and almost everyone can get another companion after losing one. Can anyone help? I mean, Skyrim is nothing without a friend :/