I killed grelod without talking to aretino first ( i will not be able to complete the quest but it wasnt an idea for that character anyway) but the other woman keeps running away from me and shouting she surrenders. I killed grelod, entered the dawnguard, half completed its missions, started the civil war, the main quest... Still runs from me. Is this a bug? how can i make her stop, i will not be able to talk for an adoption.